Every woman can resensitize the body for deeper pleasure and intimate sensation.
The keys to achieving this are simple; they are...
Engaging deeper breath, and cultivating a deeper awareness of what is present in the here and now.
Sometimes we try to rush towards pleasure, sometimes we ignore what we feel or dont feel simply because we are trying to turn the experience into pleasure,
We bulldoze through our current reality because we believe that sex and intimate connection should. Just. Feel. Good...
Yet sometimes it doesn’t.
Sometimes we feel a disconnect.
The key to turning this present reality in to deeper waves of pleasure and sensation, is to simply become more aware OF WHAT IS.
Breathing deeper and staying present...
The experience then changes and evolves, and one is immediately able to access deeper levels of self, hence we begin to resensitize the body, mind and spirit.
A problem that we are having to recognise and undo, is that many men have been taught to over perform in bed. They go hard, into bang bang mode, as through striving for some goal, as though trying to prove their masculinity to themselves and to us, because they have been taught through porn that every thing is fast, hard and athletic.
Yet the opposite is true...when it comes to relating to feminine eros and sexuality.
The feminine body is highly sensitive by its true nature, and the current of sexual energy/ feminine emotion must be ATTUNED to, rather than overridden by raw power and force.
Furthermore, when women’s bodies are penetrated too heavily, more heavily than she is ready for, then she will naturally brace in the pelvic region. This is a natural self protection mechanism, which will close her sensation down, inhibit her pleasure and cause stress to be stored in the body.
So now must undo this, and we undo it by ATTUNING to her current state of presence, we do this by listening to exactly where she is at right here and now, by honouring her emotional, energetic body above all else.
And in fact, men deeply crave this safe space, this acceptance of what is, that the woman can offer their union. Where they can exhale, stop performing, and be welcomed into presence too.
And naturally the more we learn to attune to ourselves, the more we are able to welcome our intimate partner/s to do the same.